Emerson's "Self Reliance"

This essay definitely shows the shift in ideals  from the Enlightenment to Romanticism. Emerson addresses the natural faults of human nature that are still prevalent today: the need to feel accepted, appreciated, and ultimately, to fit into the mold of society.  I can guarantee that every single teenager going through those awkward years, at one point or another, just wanted to be a part of the "cool crowd." When I switched schools in 6th grade, that is all that I wanted. You can't be an individual in middle school. No one has the luxury to be in "the midst of the crowd [and keep] with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude." In middle school, conformity is a survival tactic. Of course, as Emerson mentions, this was not the case as a child. The ideal perspective is that of the young, who are not blinded by the desires and expectations that society forces upon us, but rather expresses thoughts and actions without hesitation.  Children are not constrained by the fears of adults.  The thought of humiliation or judgment often prevents people from expressing themselves truthfully.  Emerson advises that we be true to ourselves, that we forget about the rules and regulations of society and bide by what we determine is correct. He warns his readers not to live in the past, or look to the future, but rather to live in the present.  Oftentimes, we are so caught up in past regrets and future hopes, we miss out on life itself.  Emerson also mentions that nothing is more real than perception.  It's funny, I was literally talking about this with my roommate last night.  She told me that it is not one's intent that matters, but instead how another person perceived that particular action.  What is portrayed to the world makes up reality, not necessarily your good intentions.  I like Emerson's message. All you need to do is look to yourself. There is nothing more true than the original you that must not be swayed by the judgments and opinions of others.  Unfortunately, this is definitely easier said than done.  There is a fine line between being an individual and being an outcast.  People need to find a way to be able to express themselves truthfully without pushing others away.